Sunday 28 February 2016

WHY MEN WON'T COME OUT OF SLAVERY

        This happened just 2 days back, when I was enjoying tea with a couple of friends. Suddenly in a discussion one of the friend (Mr. V) said all relation exist because of marriage. Now because this was a new and unexpected turn, i need to force why ? For a moment it looks correct, even for most of us this is true forever. But when we think deeply is it true ?

        I would says it is the basis behind the slavery, which men not ready to leave. My view is all relation exist because of sex (here I am not talking about those real relations which we call as friends) not because of marriage.

        Thousands of year back, even before that, in the beginning of human race, there was no society and no marriage, still human race move forward. The existence of marriage was accepted after hundreds of generation. But the physical relation exist even from the first day of human race. Then how human race exist because of MARRIAGE ?

        The institution of Marriage was adopted because of two main reasons. First one was dividation of work. In this process whoever proved himself strong enough for outdoor jobs like arranging food (hunting and latter farming) and other necessary things, were MALE and indoor work goes to FEMALES. And second reason can be a permanent arrangement for sex and shelter. Anyway in due time these relation turned into marriage.

        Today most of us think MARRIAGE is the only relation, but truth is MARRIAGE is just an opted and UNNATURAL relation, the real and NATURAL relation come out of child birth. No animal on planet Earth accept marriage except men, still they exist with all kind of relation. If someone has dough come and see four puppies born in my office. 

        Yes I know most of us will defend marriage on the name of Holiness or society norms. For this so called holy institution a men is ready to drop his all rights to do this slavery, even not ready to accept he is slave. So how an institution can be HOLY ? Is it really holy and progressive or just a way to get free SLAVE  ?

       
Human Race & Relation exist even before the marriage and will exist once the institution break down.


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Gursharn Singh
gursharn76@gmail.com
daman4men.in

Thursday 25 February 2016

A MEN IN TRAIN

    Railway Going to provide 33 % reservation for women. What does that mean ?

    Every women will get confirmed seat, but I wont get. Because my crime is I am MALE. I have a few questions from Railway :

  • Where is SC/SC quota ?
  • Where is OBC quota ?
  • where is NRI quota ?
  • Where is JAAT quota ?
  • Where is Sikh quota ?
  • Where is RAJPUT quota ?
  • Where is ... ?
  • Where is ... ?
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    Although I stopped presenting my seat for women except under special circumstances like aged / pregnant / hurt male / females. But today I am forced to decide not to offer my seat (if i get) to any women under any circumstances.

Sorry ladies GOVT already give you special right, still if you are standing in rail you don't deserve a seat.


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Gursharn Singh
gursharn76@gmail.com
www.daman4men.in

Friday 12 February 2016

JUDGE SAHIBA : 003 - LOT OF TIME WASTED

True Story : Recently I visited the court where I was forced to settle the case registered under section IPC 498A & 406. Although this didn't worked, still I prefer to record a few arguments or logic/arguments given by judge sahiba. Words may change a little bit because of language.

J : The case is running from many years. A lot of time  wasted.

G : I didn't wasted time. It is govt & Judiciary who sported False Cases and waste lot of time and Money. Still I don't feel if a single second was wasted because :
  • For me only thing matter is what I did during past 6 year :
    • in 2010 I was having 5 or 6 friends. Today I have more then 50000 links. Out of 50000 around 10000 are people I can call anytime.
    • Out of 10000, if not much 2000 are close friends.
    • Out of 2000, if not much 500 I can consider real friend, who can come forward to help me anytime.
    • In short last 6 year was more productive then initial 34 years.
  • For me it is more important what I learn during past 6 year : 
    • in 2010 I was a focused men, focused but just for one task, and that is Science and Computer.
    • Today I am focused and multitasking men. I know science, Law, Computer, Networking, Android, etc.
    •  Today I know how to spend free time, earlier most of my time was only for science or computer. But Today my time spending activities are much more wide and social.
  • For me it is more important what I see during past 6 year :
    • In 2010 I just saw home and office, for me almost everyone was a great men.
    • Today I see much more then what is open. I can see what is under the skin.

Overall I think my last 6 year life was more productive the previous 34 year. So where I lost time ?



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Gursharn Singh
gursharn76@gmail.com
www.daman4men.in

Wednesday 10 February 2016

JUDGE SAHIBA : 002 - MEDITATION

True Story : Recently I visited the court where I was forced to settle the case registered under section IPC 498A & 406. Although this didn't worked, still I prefer to record a few arguments or logic/arguments given by judge sahiba. Words may change a little bit because of language.
J : You and your elders should sit and solve the matter. I am sending this matter for meditation.
G : This is wastage of time because :
  • The matter already went for meditation two times.
    • First time when file was in meditation, I traveled 3 times from vishakapatnam to Sri Ganganagar (2500 km), which cost me more then 30000 /- and opposite didn't bother to travel 60 km.
    • Second time opposite moved to HC of Rajasthan with an application of meditation, again I traveled from vishakapatnam to Jodhpur (2800 km), which cost me more then 20000 /- again opposite didn't bother to travel  300 km. 
  • Now my interest is only in getting justice and making sure the punishment for opposite for misusing Law, and any meditation wont serve the purpose.
J : Still I have not arranged any meditation, therefore I am sending. When you can come for meditation.

G : 16 March.

J : Ok make sure both parties appear.

After 10 or 15 minute.

J : Why you need to visit on 16 March 2016.

G : I have to record my statement in District Court.

J : Divorce Case.

G : No. Case Registered in Drug Act.
J : Drug Act ?
G : Yes Drug Act. I am Shikayat-Karta.
J : What is stage in that case.
G : I don't know. Case is State vs ... .. I am just shikayat-karta.

When I came out of Court, to one of the Lawyer

J : ADDIYAL hai.


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Gursharn Singh
gursharn76@gmail.com
www.daman4men.in

Tuesday 9 February 2016

JUDGE SAHIBA : 001 - ELDERS RESPECT

True Story : Recently I visited the court where I was forced to settle the case registered under section IPC 498A & 406. Although this didn't worked, still I prefer to record a few arguments or logic given by judge sahiba.

LOGIC : Elder parents visiting court many times a year is insult, I should think about them.

REPLY : Not one but many :
  • Why this question rise after 6 year, why not on first hearing ?
  • Its not my fault but its Govt & Court who forced elder innocent parents to stand as accuse in court because of false cases.
  • Fighting for Justice how it can be insult ?
  • If standing in court is Insult why court exist, close it ?
  • Parents are not just to rise children, they need to present themselves as role model in need.
  • Every person present in Court is not criminal, they are here because court is a body where innocent present themselves to protect their right and serve justice.


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Gursharn Singh
gursharn76@gmail.com
www.daman4men.in