Saturday, 30 November 2013

MOKSHA or a way to HELL

"If we review very closely, we will find few factors of human characteristics that are responsible for every crime. It the same human characteristics that enjoys and feel pride in killing a animal. It is same human characteristics that finds enjoyment on harassing the lower caste. It is the same human characteristics that tries to grab which is not his own. It is same human characteristics that makes him excited on getting things free. Yes, GREED & CRUELTY are the inborn characteristics of human being. For this reason, only few can achieve MOKSHA, many criminals. We blame the society, but we never blame ourself. Who makes the society!"

The above paragraph is taken from another blog.

The conclusion from this paragraph are :

(1) GREED is fundamental character of HUMAN being.
(2) CRUELTY is another fundamental character of HUMAN being.

Here I am going to focus on GREED and CRUELTY  some other time.

Is this the conclusion or just a way to deny for justice. WHY ?

(1) Fundamental characters can't be changes : If GREED and CRUELTY are fundamental then there is no way to remove them from my character.

(2) One side blogger accepting HUMAN being is greedy at the same time saying females are not greedy they never lie, they never misuse Law and much more.

But biggest lie supported is one side it is said HUMAN BEING are GREEDY and the same time they are giving power to female so that they can enhance their GREED. Blogger himself agree that 498A can be misused and we know how easily even SC said it is legal terrorism ... still not thinking about a way which can solve the problem but we support a way which failed in solving the issue but multiply the problem. IrBM is another tool which is going to rise females GREED.

Can this be a solution that we just reverse the situation ? Or some hidden agenda so that on the name of women empowerment a few GREEDY people can enjoy or fulfill their own GREED ?

Gursharn Singh

The Truth Behind Dowry ?

Read somewhere

"In India, even in the year 2013 dowry is a grave social issue."

It this truth ?

Normally people use such statement. Have seen many people can give enough long statement in debates but I would like to ask few simple question : Just recall your memory and answer honestly

(1) Check How many marriage you have attended so far ?
(2) How many times groom asked for a car at the time of VIDAI or FERE or AANAND KARJ ?
(3) Out of Attended how many are booked in 498A.

My answers are very SImple

(1) More then 100. Personally presented at time of vidai more then 50.
(2) Not Even Single Time.
(3) As per my best knowledge 13.

I believe most of people have more or less same answer but still dowry is social problem. Is this really a social problem and still we have not seen and dowry demand but we have seen FIR which we know are FALSE ... still we say dowry exist ... we are not depending on our own experience but we are relying on someone else.

After a deep thinking I came to conclusion that dowry is not exactly defined in India still Law exist. In General three type of transection exist

(a) Parents give something to their daughter at the time of marriage
(b) Parent give something to groom as a gift at time of marriage.
(c) Some Expenditure during marriage on guests.

All three are not part of dowry.

There is another form which exist


This part of transaction is really comes under dowry and there is Law which says for that girl's parents should be punished. Unfortunately this law used rarely or almost never. For this form groom or his parents are not responsible.

Finally there is another form in which groom has taken something by force personally I have not seen any.

Still Every Year around 1 Lakh families are booked in 498A IPC. And interesting fact is dowry list given by most of FIR (have seen around 60) is part of first three transaction. The part of dowry which is GIVEN and girl's parent should be punished we are punishing BOY and his PARENTS. Why because the Law assume wife never Lie her statement if true and boy lie his statement is false.

Finally i would like to say yes DOWRY exist but it exist in the mind of young girl's parents who assume and spend for their own wish finally any dispute run to police station. And the most unfortunate part is society not ready to accept that girl's can be wrong. Why Are girls from some other planet where only truth exist ?

I would like to know how many educated girls ready to marry less or uneducated boy. A few can be seen but when i ask how many ready to marry unemployed boy, answer is ZERO. why ?