Saturday, 27 August 2016


    Just a few week back when I was traveling from Delhi to Vizag, next to me was a couple with a kid of may be 1 year or 2 year old.

    So what ?

    Normally I never care who is next to me because I travel with books, but the kid was too much irritating and it was next to impossible to focus on book so I focused on kid. Sweet kid.

    Although there is nothing special to mention but what I wanted to share is who was playing the role of care taker. Yes the men, the father was solo care taker, the lady was just eating, eating and more eating. Even if i push my mind beyond every boundary still I can't remember when the lady did some thing for the kid. Even on airport too, when we were waiting for boarding men was playing care taker. I am not saying the lady was cruel or ignorant toward kid, I just wanted to say men was solo care taker during journey.

    One can say it one incident.
    One can say it was just couple of hours.
    One can say it may not happen inside house.

    Yes I agree this is small incident. Yes it was during journey. But I have lot of example. I have seen almost every friend saying "FEELING SLEEPY". why ? Because of kid. But I never see a friend (male) who saying kid was weeping and he was sleeping without caring. No-one from my friend circle told me kid is responsibility of Mother (solo).

    MOTHER IS SOLO CARE TAKER OF KID. Yes this is new stand of Modi Govt.

    One can say not Modi but NCW. I would say NCW is allowed to do anything by Modi Govt only. Mr. Modi can do a lot of good change but he can’t deny his responsibility from such stand.

    So for all Indian men what I can suggest is :
  • When you kid need you please call his mother, because Govt want this.
  • When kid need to change cloths, remember govt had given this responsibility to Mother.
  • When kid want to play with you, please call his mother.
  • When kid ....
  • When kid ....
  • When kid ....
    What do you think I am joking ?

    No this is new face of #IndianFather Accepting of Rejecting  please choose as per your convenience.

    Yes choice is yours, you can take extra burden on you, but never forget "YOU ARE JUST ATM JUST ATM"

    There are "emotional side" too for this stand, but as I am not too much emotional, I won't talk about that.

Gursharn Singh

Saturday, 20 August 2016

I #SayNo2Silver


    Yes I am talking about silver medal in Olympic. Its proud moment for India that an Indian won silver medal. Still I wanted to say no. Why ?

    Early Morning when i wake-up i find the news of silver medal, I was happy, yes I was happy. Soon the happy moment turn into a moment of shame for me. Not even for me but for entire #Male population of #India. Why ?

Let us see what #India is telling about #Male community after winning #Silver.

----- 50 % Population of India is Killer, Truth is as per AIIMS 46 % female & 48 % male forticide -----

रियो ऑलिम्पिक
* पी.वी सिंधु 🇮🇳ऑलिम्पिक रजत पदक जीतनेवाली प्रथम भारतीय महिला है।
* हार्दिक अभिनंदन।*
भारत को एक बार फिर एक बेटी ने गौरवान्वित किया।
एक सन्देश ...
करते रहे गुनाह हम, केवल *बेटे के शौक में*....
कितने मेडल मार दिए, *जीते जी ही कोख में*....
☝☝☝☝👲👲👲----- Another on -----

"For the Indian girls at Rio...
They defeated the ultrasound that declared 'it' was a 'she'.
They defeated the nurse declaring in a sombre tone 'ladki hai'.
They defeated murderous parents or even worse those who keep them alive but kill their spirit every single day.
They defeated the odds against them for parents "allowing" her to chase her dream.
They defeated the family pride that wants every Indian child to be a doctor or engineer.
They defeated the school teacher who said "it's not a girl's game".
They defeated bad sports infrastructure and even lack of healthy food needed to fuel the fire.
They defeated a system where overweight foreign travelling officials, who have only played Ludo as a sports, decide her fate.
They defeated the Dada-Nana who told her "good girls don't wear short clothes".
They defeated the Dadi-Nani who told her not to play in sun and become "kaali-kaluti."
They defeated friends who told her she needs to "control aggression and chill."
They defeated the pados waali Aunty ji who wondered "akele kahan-kahan ghumti hai aapki ladki."
They defeated the million eyes staring at her legs and not noticing the brilliant game she played.
They defeated the Bua jee and Mausi jee who ask "tum shadi kab karogi."
They defeated the journalist who asked her when she would "settle".
They defeated the cynics who thought they were pouting and clicking selfies on a fully paid foreign trip..
So dare not take even a slice of her glory by calling her HUMARI BETI!
They have achieved what they have not because of us. But despite us!"..-----

Enjoy the moment with a shame to be #Killer, I just #SayNo2Silver 

Gursharn Singh

Friday, 19 August 2016


    Every Close friend of mine know, I don't believe in the theory behind #RakshaBandan, still this year Raksha Bandan was special. Why ?

    This year the day of Rakhi was not even in mind. Last entire week, I was busy in National meet in Hydrabad and then with friends like Anupam Dubey, Bahadur Singh and Jitendra. I get free time on morning of raksha bandan, when friends left by train. Then i get time for WhatsAPP.

    On whatsAPP i get message "HAPPY RAKSHA BANDAN" from a colleague. From past two years she binds rakhi to me, although how and when I came into picture I don't know. Last year she get transfered to other place so I was not expecting but as soon as I entered office, I get a rakhi in a box. It was not only a surprise but alsa a reminder of rakhi too.

    Pats 6 or 7 days were very special days for me because of National meet and also because of presence of friends around me.