Wednesday, 22 July 2015


    My Childhood is gone, still it is hidden somewhere deep. Probably that's why when and where I get time and space I read kid stories.

    Today I am not able to recall who was my favorite super hero, probably I was not too fond of comics and comic super heroes. Still I can recall a few comic chracters like Chacha Choudhary, Pinky, Billo etc.

    Today suddenly I get one comic book from Internet 'DHRUVA-SHAKTI'. It action based multi starer comic. Lead character are Super-Commando-Dhruva & Shakti. Plot/Story/Art all good, but I can't say same about characters of Super Heroes. Many may like specially kids can enjoy. But I feel no kid should read such comics. Why ?

    SUPER COMMANDO DHRUVA : When we see the comic and content it good comic. But the comic has little biased thought. I said little, because its not something we can notice but deep inside, hidden its biased. If someone study dhruva he/she may find him a normal men with sharp mind, strong body and best or sometime impossible skills, these skills again enhanced by science and electronics. But the best part is hero save everyone men/women/kid without worrying about gender. Then why I said Dhruva is biased ? Yes deep inside Dhruva is inspired from the femnist thought that he should not beat ladies. Yes Dhruva beat men with every drop of will, but when it comes to ladies he don't. The same he said many time in many comics. Many kids may learn to be biased from Dhruva. Probably most of us who support 'not to beat women' get inspiration from Dhruva. Its dangerous but same time I would say everything is little biased, so Dhruva is, and we can read SCD comics with caution.

    SHAKTI : This is worst super hero I have seen so far. As per my best knowledge Shakti is one and only one 'Action Female Super Hero' from India, and its worst. No I am not talking about art or plot or story, I am talking about the thought behind Shakti. Shakti born from hate yes Hate against Men. Hate toward men is base behind Shakti. Probably that's why Shakti is most biased, she has powers give by God but she don't use it to save men, she use only to save Female. Even many time she use it to save a Bad Female from Good Male. Good or Bad doesn't have any meaning but the only thing matter is MALE vs FEMALE. I don't know who is creater of Shakti and I may surprise once I know.

    Today we have a lot of modern ways and tools for entertainment, but 20 or 30 year back comic was one of the leading entertainment specially for kids.And result is we .... we the people who don't think twice before supporting #MartialRape and other biased Law as well as debates against Men. But when it is about some unknown Female we are out on road with candle.

    Hope our generation will understand and soon the time will change and we will get real super heroes working toward human being not for Male or Female.

Gursharn Singh

Tuesday, 14 July 2015


Recently I traveled in Train-General Class. As there was nothing to see so just listening music and watching what is outside from window. I was not at window seat and a bad looking lady was sitting at window seat, thats why this happened.

She : Hey Stop staring at me

Me : What (after removing headphone)

She : Stop staring at me otherwise .... ....

Me : Have you seen Mirror.

She : What !!

Me : Why anyone would stare at you when I have a lot more outside window.

She : Grrrr ... (trying to remove sandal)

Other : Ha Ha Ha Ha

Lucky Enough I am safe.

Thursday, 2 July 2015

I Don't Want to be RAM or RAVAN

     Who is RAM & RAVAN ?

    Most  of us already know.

    If someone don't know. RAVAN is a mythological character or a vilien and RAM is hero of same story.

    Now a days a short story circulating in social media. First I thought I should say please don't send me such nonsense. Second thought let then send how it can affect me or change me, when I am sure I am not wrong. Does not matter if I am right but I am not wrong that is sure.

    But it is not just about me, its about all of us. Today most members from our society are not ready to use their own mind but they just read and assume the written massage is correct. They don't even bother to think. In many cases this may be the only option specially where the expert's view play the lead role, but for other issues own mind may find a better conclusion.

    Let us see what the story is

A pregnant mother asked her daughter

Mother:- What do u want- A brother or a sister?“

Daughter:- Brother

Mother:- Like whom?
Daughter:- Like RAVAN

Mother:- What the hell are you saying? Are you out of your mind?
 Daughter:- Why not Mom? He left all his Royalship & Kingdom, all because his sister was disrespected.  Even after picking up his enemy’s wife, he didn’t ever touch her. Why wouldn’t I want to have a brother like him?  What would I do with a brother like Ram who left his pregnant wife after listening to a “Dhobi” though his wife always stood by his side like a shadow? After giving “Agni Pareeksha” & suffering 14 years of exile.  Mom, you being a wife & sister to someone, until when will you keep on asking for a “RAM” as your son??? Mother was in tears.

    For me this story spreading nothing but Feminism. Its poison for a man. How ? Let us see what I learn from this conversation :

  1. A Girl want a brother (#Men) so that he can protect her.
  2. A Girl want brother so that he can feed her mother.
  3. A Girl want brother so that he can scarify everything he has including his life for her respect (not even life).
  4. Ravan is Good because he lost everything for a women.
  5. Ram is not good because he listen a men (Dhobi).
    This story nowhere tell a men 'live your own life' but focused only on to protect women. 

    Why ?

    I am a free man not a bodyguard or slave.

    There are thousands of similar stories. Such stories are main source of poison in our mind. A man born free but soon he start thinking, he was born to protect a women. Just got memory of a true incident from my city :

    A lady came back from college and complaint against a men to her brother and brother's friends. These 6 men immediately went to nearby village where they beat the men and then kidnapped him. After couple of hours the men got free and all 6 men went to jail now the matter is in court and if we just ignore the corruption and look at evidences and eye-witnesses all 6 will spend minimum 10 year behind bar.

    For What ?

    No-one knows if the complain by lady was false or true. If we see the statistics, more then 70% chances are 'the complain is false'. But 7 person going to spend golden part of their life behind bar. Yes 7 not 6, seventh person is the men who was kidnapped, lady now launched a complaint against him in section 354, 382 ... etc.

      Such act by a men against men is not because this is his duty but it is because society (specially women) need someone to protect them, someone should die at place of them. And with such stories society trained us to scarify everything we have for a ........
     That's why I Don't Want to b RAM or RAVAN, I just wanted to be me, living own life.

Gursharn Singh