10-Aug-2014,
Its rakshabandan today. Should I say Happy Rakshabandan ? From dead
memories, I can recall an incident from available history.
Rani
Karnavati took up the regency in the name of her elder son
Vikramjeet, a weak ruler. In the meantime,
Mewar was attacked for the second time by Bahadur Shah of Gujarat, at
whose hands Vikramjeet had earlier received an defeat. It was a
matter of great concern for Rani. The antagonized nobles were not
ready to fight for Vikramjeet and the imminent battle was sure to be
another blot in the history of Sisodias. Rani Karnavati wrote to the
nobles to come forward for the sake of the honour of the Sisodias,
and was able to persuade the nobles to fight for Mewar, if not for
Vikramjeet. Their sole condition was that Vikramjeet and Uday Singh
should go to Bundi during the war for their personal safety. Rani
also sent a Rakhi to Mughal
Emperor Humayun,
calling him a brother and asking for help. Thus her name became
irrevocably linked to the festival of Raksha
Bandhan.
Why
I remember this part of history ? The best answer i can think of is
it remind me a job given to us by society, without any reward. Why
Rani Karnawati send rakhi ? When she send ? Was it the first time
when she send ? Thousands of question but history is mute. No-one
really ready to tell or find the reason, still rakhi is glorified to
teach us. Teach What, Why and Who ?
Lord
Ram is one of the globally accepted god in Hindu religion. In
Ramayana Lord Ram himself accepted Ravan as all time great scholar (
vidvan ). In short what ravan said must be having great meaning. Ravan
talk about MAYA used by women to do the job. The same i can see in
karnawati and humayu relation, The dark moment of history, which was
never told to us. Why Karnawati send at the time, when she was in
danger ? Why not next year or next to next year or previous year ? History failed to
tell us if the relation was before or continue after this incident. It
clear the motive behind was to get help during war by playing emotion
game. History tell us she get help, but failed to tell us who paid
for the same. Who lost lives in war ?
No
history available which can tell me where from rakhi was started and
what was real motive but today it is just an emotion game to get free
bodyguard so that when time come there will be a person to die in
exchange.
Its
time to wake-up, we are not toys to play with emotion. Fight but for
you and your own right to live. You are not here to die for someone
else. Demand of equity (or greater) is on rise, still some females want someone to die for them, why ? Rakshabandan is nothing but a way to GLORIFIED the victims. Its great threat to equality.
RAKSHABANDAN
is threat on EQUALITY.
This forced equality doesn't stop, thousands example can be seen in daily life :
- MALE paying bills in hotel
- MALE draging punchered bike on ROAD
- MALE droping their seat so that able FEMALE can sit
- List is endless
Gursharn Singh
gursharn76@gmail.com
DAMAN WELFARE SOCIETY
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